Review Summary

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AdultFriendFinder Reviewer
$20 - $30

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4 Stars
On April 16, 2012
Last modified:April 17, 2012


AFF is the oldest adult dating site online, and still one of the best. It's owned by Penthouse and totally legit! has been one of the most popular adult dating sites for many years. In fact, it’s one of the pioneers in the world of adult online dating. They haven’t stuck around because their site is a scam. They’ve stuck around for so long because men and women all across the globe have had tons of success meeting and hooking up with other members.

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In this review, we’re going to cover everything you need to know about, what NOT to do on the site, and how to have success on there. We’re confident you will find an attractive woman to have sex with if you’re willing to pony up the cash to become a member of But before you do that, make sure you read through this review.

AdultFriendFinder Homepage Screenshot

The oldest adult dating site, and one of the best! AdultFriendFinder is still going strong after 15 years! Advantages & Differentiators

Most adult dating sites are complete scams. What makes this site different is that it isn’t a scam. We know this because we’ve had more success on here than any other adult dating site. While most adult sites fill their member directory with fake profiles, this site does not. They have no reason to because there are plenty of attractive women willing to sign-up.

Becoming an gives you the privilege of viewing a plethora of smoking hot photos posted by women. And, best of all, you can actually speak to these women. If you play your cards right, there will be an opportunity to have sex with them. Women on here are looking for sex and nothing more. So if you want to get laid and want it from a hot woman, you’ll find it here. Dating Features Review

Since has been around the block, they’ve tested out virtually every different dating site feature imaginable. Their programming team does a fantastic job of creating a site that is easy to use and is pleasant to look at. Though we could pick out a dozen quality features, we’ve narrowed it down to our three favorites.

Wants-Based Matching System

What better way to find women that are into the same sexual fantasies as you then a wants-based matching system? When you enter your sexual desires, their matching system will pit you with women that are into the same things. Instead of hooking up with attractive women that don’t have the same fetishes, fantasies, etc. you can hook up with an attractive woman that does.

Dating Videos

Sometimes a profile isn’t enough to know if you’d want to hook up with a member. Members on can create videos for other members to see. They can share more information about who they are and what they’re looking for. They’re a great way to determine how attractive they really are.

Comprehensive Profiles

We realize this isn’t a site for meeting women looking for a long-term relationship. But it’s still nice to get to know the women and, of course, what they’re into sexually. On, members are required to enter extensive information (compared to other similar sites) about themselves. This helps make your decision of whether or not to contact them much easier. Members Review

We spent 2 months on and had great success. We sent out more than 90 emails and were pleased to receive responses from almost 60 women. We did notice a slightly higher male to female ratio, but it’s far less than most adult dating sites. They claim to have more than 30 million members. You can learn more about the history of and its popularity from this Wikipedia article. Review – Who Is For

If you love sex (and who doesn’t?), is the perfect site for you. We don’t say that because they pay us money (they don’t). We say that because not only have we had success meeting hot women on, we’ve spoken to dozens of men that have seen similar results.

Yes, there are far more women than men. However, you won’t find an adult dating site with a male to female ratio favorable to men. But this site is great for any man serious about getting laid. The competition is only stiff (no pun intended) in terms of numbers. Most of the guys on that site have no clue how to attract women. If you pay attention to the advice we give on this site, they’ll be of no competition to you. The same advice we give out is the same strategies we’ve successfully used. Membership Pricing Review

It’s never a bad idea to try out an adult dating site for free. Don’t waste too much time with a free membership. Just make sure there are enough attractive women in your area (there are nearly anywhere). After that, get signed up for one of the following plans:

Silver Membership ($20 per month)
Gold Membership ($30 per month)

Learn more about Silver and Gold Membership features here.

What NOT To Do on

Top 3 Mistakes to Avoid Making on

1. Being too cocky. Have swagger is good, but far too many dudes on think that acting like a complete arrogant asshole will get them laid. It won’t.
2. Not creating a video. Don’t be afraid to upload a video of yourself. It will significantly increase your chances of women contacting you.
3. Only contacting a few members. Adult online dating is a numbers game. Contact as many attractive women as possible. Specific Advice For Success

There is tons of advice we can give you to have success on Most importantly, be original an be yourself. Too many guys sign-up for this site with a cocky attitude and think they can just post some sexy photo of themselves and women will start begging for their cock. It doesn’t work that way. Women are not attracted to this type of guy, which is why most of the men on are left sitting at home jerking off.

Adult online dating is a competitive game – this site is no different. You must be able to standout and impress women. It starts with creating a killer profile that includes attractive photos of you (NO PENIS PICS!). Contacting other members is easy and can be done via video chat, email, or instant message. Take advantage of every contact method provided. And contact as many women as possible. Don’t become impatient and settle for the heffers. Be patient and continue contacting and chatting with attractive women. If you learn how to charm a woman, eventually you’re going to get hooked up with a hottie. Services & Support

This Wikipedia article provides some great information about the history of and some cool statistics about the site. Here are 2 important links with useful information about Help Center

AdultFriendFinder Advice Blog Review – Conclusion

There isn’t much more we can say about You already know how we feel about this adult online dating site. We’ve given you the advice you need to succeed on, provided you information about key statistics and site features. So what are you waiting for? Get up off your lazy ass and sign-up for what is largely considered the Granddaddy of adult online dating sites. You have nothing to lose.