Adult Dating Websites – The Top Sites & Scams Out There

There are literally 1,000+ adult dating websites. That number is staggering. So how do you know which ones to choose? You just guess. That’s really all you can do. We’re kidding! All you need to do to decide is to read our reviews on the top adult dating sites. There are only 3 such reviews. Why? Because there are only 3 adult online dating sites that aren’t complete scams.

You can also check out our reviews of 11 other sites we cannot recommend. As you will notice from these reviews, we had poor experiences on these sites. So have most of their members. The women were either ugly, fake, unresponsive, or not serious about getting laid. And seemingly half of the profiles were phony. The 3 adult dating sites we think highly of were the complete opposite. The women were friendly, attractive, actively participated on the site, and ready to get it on!


Here are the ONLYadult dating websites you should be trying that ARE NOT SCAMS. Every other adult dating site we tried turned out to be a scam, except these top 3 sites!

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Use any of the sites below AT YOUR OWN RISK. They are adult dating scams, and shouldn’t even exist …

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XXXBlackBook Review Logo Review Don’t join this site. It’s an adult dating scam.
LetsBang Review Logo Review Let’s bang? Let’s not. This site is a joke and totally fake.
HardHookup Review Logo Review Nothing hard or to hookup with on this fraud of a dating site.
AmateurMatch Review Logo Review This one has been around for YEARS. It was a scam then and it’s a scam now.
OnlineBootyCall Review Logo Review A complete joke. No women use this site. It’s complete bullshit.
BeNaughty Review Logo Review No one is being naughty on this site. It’s a fraud.
EasyFlirt Review Logo Review Same as all the other ones, it’s a scam.
EdenFlirt Review Logo Review Nothing positive to say about this site.
SocialFlirt Review Logo Review Complete crap. Do not use. It’s a rip off of
OneNightStandGirls Review Logo Review Nothing good on this site either. Complete scam.

What We Look for in Adult Dating Sites

Before we can give an accurate review of a site, we had to come up with certain qualities that we expected in a hookup site. Each site must have ALL of the following qualities in order for us to give it a positive review:

  • Has plenty of attractive women in nearly any metropolitan area. We understand that guys that live in some Podunk town, 200 miles from civilization, aren’t going to find anyone nearby. If you do live in this type of place, you’re going to have to travel for sex.
  • Is affordably priced. We’re not cheap bastards, and don’t expect you to be either. But that doesn’t mean we should have to fork over our entire life savings trying to get laid. Expect to pay $40 a month or so, but you shouldn’t spend much more.
  • The majority of paid members are satisfied with the site. In the grand scheme of things, it’s all about results. If you get laid by an attractive woman you met on the site, you’re going to think highly of the site. The best adult dating sites have positive reviews all over the Internet from guys that got laid.
  • Easy to contact and search for women. Some dating sites are a royal pain in the ass. Many of them would actually be decent sites if not for being so damn confusing. You shouldn’t have to work hard to contact and find attractive women. The effort you put into getting laid should mostly be spent trying to attract the women.
  • Not a brand new site. New dating sites pop-up every second it seems. Some of them might turn out to be great sites. But we don’t recommend signing up for any brand new sites. The reason for that is most new dating sites will create a bunch of fake profiles to make their site appear to be popular. We don’t blame them for doing that – it’s a smart business practice. But you’re not going to bang an imaginary woman.
  • Women not too heavily outweighed by men. It’s a fact of life that nearly any dating site is going to have more men than women. This is something you’re just going to have to deal with. 80% of the members on most hookup sites are men. Avoid these sites like the plague. Go for sites that are closer to 60/40.
  • Women respond positively to our messages. Sites with few women that are active on the site are frustrating. On some of these hookup sites, you can send out hundreds of high-quality messages to women and receive no response. We know how to write an email that makes women instantly attracted to us. But those skills don’t matter if the message isn’t received because the women don’t check their emails.
  • Many unique site features. We expect a lot out of a dating site – more than just hot women begging for sex. We want a site that is easy to navigate through and offers cool features such as video chat, matchmaking capabilities, and filtered searches.

Our Process for Reviewing Adult Dating Sites

We’ve spent hundreds of hours researching, signing up for, and reviewing adult dating websites. The process we used for rating these sites is listed below. After we researched each site, we did some adult dating comparisons. We stacked each site side-by-side and compared them as follows:

Step 1 – Search the member directory and locate ONLY the hot women.

Step 2 – Send out 2 emails per day for 3 days to EACH hottie.

Step 3 – Attempt to set-up dates with women that responded to our emails.

We followed these steps on all 14 sites we reviewed, and sent the same basic emails. The only difference between each email was we left room to personalize each message (very important). The goal was to see how many dates we could set-up. We did not discriminate when it came to age. As long as they were above 18 and attractive, we contacted them. Besides, who doesn’t fantasize about hooking up with a MILF/Cougar?

Statistical Breakdown of Our Review Process

Since the only thing that really matters is getting laid, we can only give positive reviews to sites we were able to meet women on. If you’re able to score a date with a girl on a hookup site, she wants to have sex – 100% of the time. So if you can’t pull that off despite scoring a date, that’s your own fault. If you follow our strategies for meeting women, you’re guaranteed to at least get a date. After that, it’s all up to your offline game. We found 3 sites that we were able to successfully set up dates. They are, as follows:

What’s with our love affair for these sites? We had absolutely no problems setting up dates with attractive women of all ages, within 24-48 hours after signing up. We had very little success on the 11 additional sites we reviewed. In fact, we never received a single response to our messages on 8 of them. The other 3 sites weren’t much better. We received 2 responses on 1, and 1 on the other, despite sending messages to nearly 60 women.

On, we sent out 20 emails. We received 9 responses (45%) and were able to set up 5 dates in the first week. wasn’t far off in terms of success. We received 6 responses to our 20 emails, and convinced 5 of them to go out on a date. On, we sent 25 emails, were responded to by 11 women, and set up 5 dates.

You should expect similar results if you effectively use these 3 sites. And you should also expect similar results if you go against our advice and sign-up for the 11 sites we were forced to give negative reviews for.